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Definitive_Handbook_of_Islamic_Joy_Sex_thru_Marriage, page : 7
2. If the girl is not Muslim there is no need for a Muslim guardian, but it is recommended.
3. If she is Muslim, and her family are not Muslim, then she must seek a Muslim guardian approved from her neighborhood, i.e. Mosque’s Imam or respected honest person who knows her.
4. Marry the old fashion way, get a license and register in court. However, this is not Islamic till you add to it the Islamic methodology of giving dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah.
5. Common law marriage when two just move in and live together and practice sex. This is not an Islamic till you add to it the Islamic methodology of giving dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah.
6. Dating while having sex. This is not an Islamic till you add to it the Islamic methodology of giving dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah.
7. IN ALL CASES, YOU SHOULD CONTACT A LEARNED SCHOLAR TO ASK FOR A SPECIFIC DIAGNOSIS TO YOUR PERSONAL CASE, AS THE ISLAMIC RULING AND JUDGMENT DIFFERS DEPENDING ON THE SITUATION. THIS BOOKLET MAYBE HELPFUL. YET A MUSLIM SCHOLAR’S OPINION OR PRESENCE IS ESSENTIAL TO AVOID MISUNDERSTANDING, CONFUSION, AND CHAOS.
8. One-night-stand. Islam strongly discourages people from committing such irresponsible acts. Islam encourages people and society to establish sound and happy families and live happily ever after. However, if one is faced with a situation of committing fornication and/or adultery for the male, one is encouraged to perform a marriage methodology which includes: dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing and extend it from one night to in indefinite nights. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, then you have already committed a sin. Apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah and would like to live longer than one night to convert into a good long lasting relationship. If this is not done, it is pure fornication. See below number 8. Muslims who marry outside of Islam and have sex will be subject to punishment
4. What is the Islamic way of marriage?
In the same way that it is unnecessary for a clerk to be present or a visit to the mosque to convert to Islam, an Islamic marriage
3. If she is Muslim, and her family are not Muslim, then she must seek a Muslim guardian approved from her neighborhood, i.e. Mosque’s Imam or respected honest person who knows her.
4. Marry the old fashion way, get a license and register in court. However, this is not Islamic till you add to it the Islamic methodology of giving dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah.
5. Common law marriage when two just move in and live together and practice sex. This is not an Islamic till you add to it the Islamic methodology of giving dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah.
6. Dating while having sex. This is not an Islamic till you add to it the Islamic methodology of giving dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah.
7. IN ALL CASES, YOU SHOULD CONTACT A LEARNED SCHOLAR TO ASK FOR A SPECIFIC DIAGNOSIS TO YOUR PERSONAL CASE, AS THE ISLAMIC RULING AND JUDGMENT DIFFERS DEPENDING ON THE SITUATION. THIS BOOKLET MAYBE HELPFUL. YET A MUSLIM SCHOLAR’S OPINION OR PRESENCE IS ESSENTIAL TO AVOID MISUNDERSTANDING, CONFUSION, AND CHAOS.
8. One-night-stand. Islam strongly discourages people from committing such irresponsible acts. Islam encourages people and society to establish sound and happy families and live happily ever after. However, if one is faced with a situation of committing fornication and/or adultery for the male, one is encouraged to perform a marriage methodology which includes: dowry, guardian (for Muslim virgin with Muslim father), wording and witnessing and extend it from one night to in indefinite nights. You must do it before having sex and if you failed to do so, then you have already committed a sin. Apply the Islamic methodology as soon as possible while both must ask for forgiveness from Allah and would like to live longer than one night to convert into a good long lasting relationship. If this is not done, it is pure fornication. See below number 8. Muslims who marry outside of Islam and have sex will be subject to punishment
4. What is the Islamic way of marriage?
In the same way that it is unnecessary for a clerk to be present or a visit to the mosque to convert to Islam, an Islamic marriage