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woman who takes care of her housekeeping assists her husband in the religion,
the destabilization of these matters will occupy and disturb the mind and make
disharmony in the life.
Abu Soliman Al Darani - may Allah have mercy upon him - said: “The righteous
wife is not of this life, she spares her husband‟s time for the Hereafter.”
The Fifth Advantage: Is in the disciplining of the soul, refining the character, and
curing the sickness of the heart, and taking care of the rights of the wife and
persevering in patience to tolerate any aggravation, to strive in reforming them
and guiding them to the way of religion. To strive to gain the lawful for their sake
and to care for the upbringing of the children, all these deeds are of great virtue.
As to the discouragements to marriage there are three:
Firstly: The major discouragement is the inability to seek the lawful. As this will
not be easy for everyone, especially in these days when life is difficult. So
the destabilization of these matters will occupy and disturb the mind and make
disharmony in the life.
Abu Soliman Al Darani - may Allah have mercy upon him - said: “The righteous
wife is not of this life, she spares her husband‟s time for the Hereafter.”
The Fifth Advantage: Is in the disciplining of the soul, refining the character, and
curing the sickness of the heart, and taking care of the rights of the wife and
persevering in patience to tolerate any aggravation, to strive in reforming them
and guiding them to the way of religion. To strive to gain the lawful for their sake
and to care for the upbringing of the children, all these deeds are of great virtue.
As to the discouragements to marriage there are three:
Firstly: The major discouragement is the inability to seek the lawful. As this will
not be easy for everyone, especially in these days when life is difficult. So