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The heavens and the earth were created in justice, anything, which exceeds its
limit creates disharmony.
The Fifth: Moderation in Jealousy: A man should not be excessively jealous, and
in matters whose outcome concerns him, he should not ignore them from their
onset. He should not permit himself to go to extremes in suspicion, obstinacy or
spying out the secrets of the heart. The Prophet forbade us from pursuing the
faults of women.
The Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, said: “There is one kind of
jealousy, which Allah, the Almighty loathes, that is the jealousy of a man for his
wife without cause.” Because of suspicion from, which we have been forbidden,
as most suspicion is sin.
As for jealousy with cause, it is unavoidable and praiseworthy.
The Sixth: Moderation in Expenditure: A man should not be excessively
limit creates disharmony.
The Fifth: Moderation in Jealousy: A man should not be excessively jealous, and
in matters whose outcome concerns him, he should not ignore them from their
onset. He should not permit himself to go to extremes in suspicion, obstinacy or
spying out the secrets of the heart. The Prophet forbade us from pursuing the
faults of women.
The Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, said: “There is one kind of
jealousy, which Allah, the Almighty loathes, that is the jealousy of a man for his
wife without cause.” Because of suspicion from, which we have been forbidden,
as most suspicion is sin.
As for jealousy with cause, it is unavoidable and praiseworthy.
The Sixth: Moderation in Expenditure: A man should not be excessively