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this does not come within the realm of choice. Allah, the Almighty said: “You will
not be able to be just between your women, even though you are eager.…”
(Koran Ch. 4 verse 129); this means you will never be able to be fair regarding
the heart‟s emotion.
The Ninth: The Violation of Marital duties on the part of either Husband or Wife:
Whatever discord there is between them, which cannot be reconciled, if it was
the man‟s fault, or from their joint faults, the wife should not be incited against her
husband, and if the problem cannot be resolved then two arbitrators should be
appointed, one from her side and one from his side to examine the matter and to
try to reconciliate them. Allah, the Almighty said: “If you fear a breach between
them send for an arbiter from his people and an arbiter from her people. If both
wish reconciliation, Allah will bring success between them. …” (Koran Ch. 4
verse 35). Umar - may Allah be pleased with him - sent an arbitrator between a
wife and husband, and he returned without being able to effect a reconciliation.
not be able to be just between your women, even though you are eager.…”
(Koran Ch. 4 verse 129); this means you will never be able to be fair regarding
the heart‟s emotion.
The Ninth: The Violation of Marital duties on the part of either Husband or Wife:
Whatever discord there is between them, which cannot be reconciled, if it was
the man‟s fault, or from their joint faults, the wife should not be incited against her
husband, and if the problem cannot be resolved then two arbitrators should be
appointed, one from her side and one from his side to examine the matter and to
try to reconciliate them. Allah, the Almighty said: “If you fear a breach between
them send for an arbiter from his people and an arbiter from her people. If both
wish reconciliation, Allah will bring success between them. …” (Koran Ch. 4
verse 35). Umar - may Allah be pleased with him - sent an arbitrator between a
wife and husband, and he returned without being able to effect a reconciliation.