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So he raised his stick ready to strike him saying; „Allah, the Almighty said: „If
they wish for reconciliation Allah will effect harmony between them,‟ So the
arbitrator had to return with a good intention and treat them kindly until he
reconciled them.
The Tenth: The Ethics of Marital Intercourse: The Prophet, praise and peace be
upon him, said: “If any one of you when he approaches his wife says: „Please
Allah distance the satan from us and distance satan from what You will bestow
on us.‟ Then Allah bestows on them a child, satan will never be able to harm
him.”
Let there be foreplay between them and before approaching each other they
should begin by exchanging pleasant words and kisses. The Prophet, praise and
peace be upon him, said: “None of your should fall on top on his wife the way the
animals fall on each other, but let there be between them a messenger.” They
asked: “What is this messenger, O Prophet of Allah?” He said: “The kiss and the
pleasant words.” Then if he finishes first he should wait for his wife until she also
they wish for reconciliation Allah will effect harmony between them,‟ So the
arbitrator had to return with a good intention and treat them kindly until he
reconciled them.
The Tenth: The Ethics of Marital Intercourse: The Prophet, praise and peace be
upon him, said: “If any one of you when he approaches his wife says: „Please
Allah distance the satan from us and distance satan from what You will bestow
on us.‟ Then Allah bestows on them a child, satan will never be able to harm
him.”
Let there be foreplay between them and before approaching each other they
should begin by exchanging pleasant words and kisses. The Prophet, praise and
peace be upon him, said: “None of your should fall on top on his wife the way the
animals fall on each other, but let there be between them a messenger.” They
asked: “What is this messenger, O Prophet of Allah?” He said: “The kiss and the
pleasant words.” Then if he finishes first he should wait for his wife until she also