REMEMBER ALLAH IN TIMES OF GREAT DISTRESS H 940 "The Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, went to his son Ibrahim when he was dying, and his eyes began to overflow with tears, whereupon Abdur Rahman son of Auf said, 'O Messenger of Allah, praise and peace be upon him, even you?' The Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, said: 'Ibn Auf this is only the tenderness of the heart.' He wept again and said, 'The eye sheds tears and the heart is sorrowful, but we say only that which may please our Lord. We are indeed sad, O Ibrahim, by your passing.'" R 940 Bukhari with a chain up to Anas who related that the Messenger of Allah, praise and peace be upon him, said this.
927- وعن أنسٍ رضي الله عنه : أنَّ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم دَخَلَ عَلَى ابْنِهِ إبْرَاهيمَ رضي الله عنه ، وَهُوَ يَجُودُ بِنَفسِهِ ، فَجَعَلَتْ عَيْنَا رسولِ الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم تَذْرِفَان . فَقَالَ لَهُ عبدُ الرحمانِ بن عَوف : وأنت يَا رسولَ الله ؟! فَقَالَ : "يَا ابْنَ عَوْفٍ إنَّهَا رَحْمَةٌ" ثُمَّ أتْبَعَهَا بأُخْرَى ، فَقَالَ : "إنَّ العَيْنَ تَدْمَعُ والقَلب يَحْزنُ ، وَلاَ نَقُولُ إِلاَّ مَا يُرْضِي رَبَّنَا ، وَإنَّا لِفِرَاقِكَ يَا إبرَاهِيمُ لَمَحزُونُونَ" رواه البخاري ، وروى مسلم بعضه . والأحاديث في الباب كثيرة في الصحيح مشهورة ، والله أعلم .