LEAD A BALANCED WAY OF LIFE H H 150 The Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, had established the bond of brotherhood between Salman and Abu Darda'. Salman went to see Abu Darda' and found his wife looking unkempt. He asked her: 'What is the matter with you?' She replied: 'Your brother, Abu Darda' has no worldly desires.' Then Abu Darda' arrived and prepared some food for Salman and said: 'Go ahead and eat, I am fasting.' Salman said: 'I shall not eat unless you eat with me.' So Abu Darda' ate with him. At night Abu Darda' arose for the voluntary prayer. Salman told him to go to sleep, so he slept. This happened again. Later Salman said, 'Wake up' and both offered the prayer together. Then Salman said: 'It is true that you owe your duty to your Lord, but you also owe a duty to yourself and to your wife. So you should carry out your duty to everyone.' Then they went to the Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, and related all that transpired and he told them: 'Salman was right.'" R 150 Bukhari with a chain up to Abu Juhaifah Wahb son of Abdullah related this.
149- وعن أبي جُحَيْفَة وَهْب بنِ عبد اللهِ رضي الله عنه ، قَالَ : آخَى النَّبيُّ صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم بَيْنَ سَلْمَانَ وَأَبي الدَّرْداءِ ، فَزارَ سَلْمَانُ أَبَا الدَّرداءِ فَرَأى أُمَّ الدَّرداءِ مُتَبَذِّلَةً ، فَقَالَ : مَا شَأنُكِ ؟ قَالَتْ : أخُوكَ أَبُو الدَّردَاءِ لَيْسَ لَهُ حَاجَةٌ في الدُّنْيَا ، فَجاءَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ فَصَنَعَ لَهُ طَعَاماً ، فَقَالَ لَهُ : كُلْ فَإِنِّي صَائِمٌ ، قَالَ : مَا أنا بِآكِلٍ حَتَّى تَأكُلَ فأكل ، فَلَمَّا كَانَ اللَّيلُ ذَهَبَ أَبُو الدَّردَاءِ يَقُومُ فَقَالَ لَهُ : نَمْ ، فنام ، ثُمَّ ذَهَبَ يَقُومُ فَقَالَ لَهُ : نَمْ . فَلَمَّا كَانَ من آخِر اللَّيلِ قَالَ سَلْمَانُ : قُم الآن ، فَصَلَّيَا جَمِيعاً فَقَالَ لَهُ سَلْمَانُ : إنَّ لِرَبِّكَ عَلَيْكَ حَقّاً ، وَإِنَّ لِنَفْسِكَ عَلَيكَ حَقّاً ، وَلأَهْلِكَ عَلَيكَ حَقّاً ، فَأعْطِ كُلَّ ذِي حَقٍّ حَقَّهُ ، فَأَتَى النَّبيَّ صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فَذَكَرَ ذلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَ النَّبيُّ صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم : "صَدَقَ سَلْمَانُ" رواه البخاري .