KINDNESS EVEN TOWARDS ONE'S UNBELIEVING MOTHER H H 325 "(When) Lady Ayesha's mother was an unbeliever she went to visit her so Lady Ayesha, may Allah be pleased with her, and asked the Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, 'My mother has come to see me and wants me to give her something, shall I please her?' He replied: 'Yes, be kind to your mother.'" R 325 Bukhari and Muslim with a chain up to Lady Asma'a the daughter of Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with them, who related this.
325- وعن أسماءَ بنتِ أَبي بكر الصديق رضي الله عنهما ، قَالَتْ : قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ مُشركةٌ في عَهْدِ رسولِ الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ، فاسْتَفْتَيْتُ رَسُول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ، قُلْتُ : قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ ، أفَأصِلُ أُمِّي ؟ قَالَ : "نَعَمْ ، صِلِي أُمَّكِ" مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيهِ. وَقَولُهَا : "رَاغِبَةٌ" أيْ : طَامِعَةٌ عِنْدِي تَسْألُني شَيْئاً ؛ قِيلَ : كَانَتْ أُمُّهَا مِن النَّسَبِ ، وَقيل : مِن الرَّضَاعَةِ ، وَالصحيحُ الأول .