CHARITY AND KINDNESS H 332 "When you break the fast, break it with a date because there is blessing in it, but if you cannot find a date, then water because it is pure. He continued: Giving alms to someone who is poor is charity, but to a relative it is both charity and kindness." R 332 Tirmidhi with a chain up to Salman the son of 'Amir who related that the Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, said this.
332- وعن سلمان بن عامر رضي الله عنه ، عن النَّبيّ صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ، قَالَ : "إِذَا أفْطَرَ أحَدُكُمْ ، فَلْيُفْطرْ عَلَى تَمْرٍ ؛ فَإنَّهُ بَرَكةٌ ، فَإنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ تَمْراً ، فالمَاءُ ؛ فَإنَّهُ طَهُورٌ" ، وَقالَ : "الصَّدَقَةُ عَلَى المِسكينِ صَدَقةٌ ، وعَلَى ذِي الرَّحِمِ ثِنْتَانِ : صَدَقَةٌ وَصِلَةٌ" رواه الترمذي ، وَقالَ : "حديث حسن" .