SPEND ON YOUR DEPENDENTS H 511 "O son of Adam, if you were to spend whatever is left over it will be better for you. If you withhold it, it will be evil for you. You will not be blamed for keeping that which you need. Begin by spending upon your dependents." R 511 Tirmidhi with a chain up to Abu Umamah who related that the Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, said this.
509- وعن أَبي أُمَامَة رضي الله عنه ، قَالَ : قَالَ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم : "يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ ، إنَّكَ أنْ تَبْذُلَ الفَضْلَ خَيرٌ لَكَ ، وَأنْ تُمسِكَهُ شَرٌ لَكَ ، ولاَ تُلاَمُ عَلَى كَفَافٍ ، وَابْدأ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ" رواه الترمذي ، وقال : "حديث حسن صحيح" .