RELATIVES WHO ILL-TREAT ONE ANOTHER H 652 "A man said, 'O Messenger of Allah, my relatives are such that I associate with them but they sever. I am kind to them but they ill-treat me, I am patient but they are rude.' He replied, 'If it is as you have said, you are feeding them hot ash as long as you continue and you will always have Allah to help you against them.'" R 652 Muslim with a chain up to Abu Hurairah who related that a man asked the Prophet, praise and peace be upon him, this.
647- وعن أَبي هريرة رضي الله تَعَالَى عنه: أنَّ رَجُلاً ، قَالَ : يَا رسول الله ، إنّ لي قَرَابةً أصِلُهم وَيَقْطَعُونِي ، وَأُحْسِنُ إلَيْهِمْ وَيُسِيئُونَ إلَيَّ ، وَأحْلُمُ عَنهم وَيَجْهَلُونَ عَلَيَّ ! فَقَالَ : "لَئِنْ كُنْتَ كَمَا قُلْتَ ، فَكأنَّمَا تُسِفُّهُمُ الْمَلَّ ، وَلاَ يَزَالُ مَعَكَ مِنَ اللهِ تَعَالَى ظَهيرٌ عَلَيْهِمْ مَا دُمْتَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ" رواه مسلم . وقد سَبَقَ شَرْحُهُ في بَابِ صلة الأرحام .